tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post6712392694723527889..comments2024-02-04T15:02:14.402-06:00Comments on ramblins....: Zip it, zip it goodCharhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03851293154388793520noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-76718387220444431262009-02-21T15:10:00.000-06:002009-02-21T15:10:00.000-06:00Just wondering if you still work with this person....Just wondering if you still work with this person. She probably doesn't see it as abuse, and without more information, I'd say it was simply control issues. He probably does this 'for her own good'. I know that I would make my feelings known, would spend very little time with her out of work.<BR/><BR/>People let themselves get controlled like this for a reason. Sometimes those reasons are sick ones.Country Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14432335393660130255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-15938667729871363962008-11-11T09:38:00.000-06:002008-11-11T09:38:00.000-06:00well, she does know that I don't think this is a g...well, she does know that I don't think this is a good thing...but I can't be too abrasive as we work together and I do really care about her and her welfare.Charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851293154388793520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-36032588946679415252008-11-11T00:23:00.000-06:002008-11-11T00:23:00.000-06:00Ugh. Chances are if he's that controlling, there ...Ugh. Chances are if he's that controlling, there are a lot more problems than just her diet going on there. I'm not one to give tactful advice, but I'd probably ask if everything was OK and make my distaste known. Of course, that could be why I have so few friends left. :)Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08920447716442346574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-51678708040964303532008-11-10T16:46:00.000-06:002008-11-10T16:46:00.000-06:00I didn't talk about the children. Her oldest chil...I didn't talk about the children. Her oldest child has another father from a previous marriage. She had baby fat - at 13 she is on a strict diet (has been for 2 years now) and her daily diet is posted on the fridge. The two younger children get to eat as they like...of course they are 8 and 1 so they are not "fat".Charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03851293154388793520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-65855578733283712592008-11-10T15:33:00.000-06:002008-11-10T15:33:00.000-06:00I sense a whole heap of therapy being stored up in...I sense a whole heap of therapy being stored up in that household.<BR/><BR/>My thoughts are with the children.foxxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09485316200513494801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6805054219581359150.post-32797309584578526412008-11-10T14:22:00.000-06:002008-11-10T14:22:00.000-06:00I think I just threw up a little...It's difficult ...I think I just threw up a little...<BR/><BR/>It's difficult to watch something like this, especially when it is happening to someone you care about, but you put it best. It is a choice she has made... albeit a shit one.Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05410307848088194103noreply@blogger.com